Call for a free 10 minute consultation or to set up an appointment.
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EVIDENCE BASED COUPLES AND RELATIONSHIP THERAPY
Couples Therapy Focused on Changing Conflict Patterns, Building Connection, and Creating Change
Effective couples therapy is grounded in research while staying closely attuned to the lived experience of your relationship — how conversations unfold, how conflict escalates, and how attempts to connect repeatedly miss the mark despite good intentions.
The work is structured, but not rigid, focused on helping you and your partner rebuild trust, deepen intimacy, strengthen emotional connection, and clarify commitment.
Together, we focus on the patterns that keep you stuck: recurring arguments that go nowhere, cycles of criticism and withdrawal, defensiveness, emotional distance, and conversations that leave both people feeling misunderstood or alone.
Past experiences are addressed not to dwell on them, but to understand how they continue shaping the way you relate to one another in the present.
In therapy, your relationship is viewed as a dynamic system. Each partner’s reactions influence the other, often in ways that are difficult to recognize while conflict is unfolding.
Over time, these patterns can begin to feel automatic: one partner pursues, the other shuts down; one criticizes, the other withdraws. Therapy helps slow these moments down so the cycle becomes visible — creating space for clarity, understanding, and different responses.
This work isn’t always comfortable.
Change often requires letting go of familiar habits — blame, self-protection, emotional distance, escalation, avoidance — even when those responses once served a purpose.
The process is practical and focused, aimed at interrupting unhelpful cycles rather than endlessly revisiting the same arguments.
With sustained effort, couples therapy can help create a relationship that feels steadier, more connected, and more supportive of both partners.
Step 1: Schedule a free 10-minute discovery call at 412.853.2000 to answer any questions you have about evidence-based couples therapy.
Step 2: Book your first appointment. We’ll begin with an assessment of your relationship’s strengths, challenges, and barriers to growth, giving you a clear sense of where you are and what the work ahead will involve.
Step 3: Once you’re ready to commit, we’ll set realistic, practical, and meaningful goals—for both of you and the relationship—and create a customized action plan.
Step 4: Start your journey of growth and transformation. This is where the real work begins, with a focus on healing, intimacy, and building lasting connection.
Step 5: Put your growth into practice by developing skills to maintain the positive changes you’ve both worked to create.
Step 6: Live your revised relationship journey, becoming the strong, connected couple you’ve built together.
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WE ACCEPT AETNA AND BLUE CROSS BLUE SHIELD INSURANCE, CHECKS, AND CREDIT CARDS. Out-of-pocket fees are $175 per session.
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